Jan 06
I just released my new book, Mastering the Art of Success! Check it out! The book also features best-selling authors Les Brown (The Power of Purpose), Mark Victor Hansen (Chicken Soup for the Soul), and Jack Canfield (Chicken Soup for the Soul, The Success Principle: How to Get From Where You Are to Where You Want to Be).
Nov 04
True success is realized when we achieve balance in our personal needs (ego motives) and our spiritual needs (Soul motives). Our health, happiness and prosperity are a direct reflection of this balance. When BOTH parts of us are in the game and balanced, we can then achieve true success and prosperity.
I go into more detail in the soon-to-be-released book, Mastering the Art of Success. Sign up for my newsletter and I’ll not only let you know when and how you can get your copy of the book, I’ll give you FIVE FREE TOOLS to get you started right now on your path to achieving success and prosperity!
Oct 23
THE LIVE TELECLASS WAS A GREAT SUCCESS
and while it may be over, the
I am willing to virtually take you by the hand and step-by-step uncover and delete what I have discovered to be the most common “rational-LIES” that the EGO uses to shackle the children of God in their financial life!
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Sep 06
Listening to the EGO voices in every bar, business and newscast multiplies destruction, despair and death. How much easier it is to thrive and succeed when we seek out the voices of the teachers of God.
Aug 25
We all need (and deserve) regular doses of TLC (tender loving care). And then there are times when we have experienced a Tremendous Life Challenge, like Trauma, Loss or Change that we need more than that. When we have done all that we know how to do, when we feel defeated and hopeless… then we need TOOLS, LOVE and COACHING to help us get back on our feet and begin again.
This is my goal as The EGO Tamer® and your EFT Master. I want to lift your spirit and Rejuvenate your soul by:
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Aug 16
The goal of Taming the EGO is to be liberated from FEAR. Learn more and get tools for taming your little EGO voice and transforming your Trauma, Loss and Change today! Sign up for my newsletter using the form on the left side of the page.
Aug 11
With everything that is going on in the world, it is not unusual for me to receive a series of clients back-to-back all expressing the same pains and frustrations. Financial worries are far and away the number one stressor that my clients are struggling with right now.
In the past weeks I have had numerous women, in their 50’s and 60’s not looking forward to retirement but looking at employment applications.
One husband has been unemployed for over a year. Another’s husband has become disabled and she is now taking on a second job to pay for the added medical expenses. And many others are simply finding that what they thought would be their Golden years…. has left them with half or less of the gold they had been saving for their retirement.
These are real life challenges, yes. However, the real battle is not in the situation, but in the mind. The ever present little EGO voice loves to agitate us with thoughts of our personal woe and despair.
Maybe some of these client’s phrases sound familiar to you?
“It wasn’t supposed to be like this!”
“I didn’t sign up for all of this!”
“I will never be able to retire, I will die first!”
“I did everything right and this is what I got for it!”
You may be asking: “How do you help them feel better when they are so paralyzed with Grief after such Trauma, Loss or Change?
First: keep it simple. Begin by loving yourself or your client right in the middle of this circumstance. And just tap on the real feelings using the little EGO voice words just as they are coming to you. And yes, we can get some F-bombs flying when the client needs to express the true anger.
(If you are feeling like life has sucker punched you and you are tired of feeling discouraged and defeated… you can simply read along or tap along with this sample script.)
Take a few breathes and when you are ready… tap slowly …:
Even though, I keep thinking …..That it wasn’t supposed to be like this….. and I am angry and weary at the thought. I deeply and completely accept…. that this is how I feel right now ….and it is an appropriate response to the Trauma, Loss and Change that I have experienced recently.
Even though, I am feeling so discouraged…. And overwhelmed by it all…. It seems like everything has Changed and I feel powerless to change it back… perhaps today… I can relax into the idea that I don’t have to Change things back… that is probably not the solution…. In fact that will probably never happen…. I am willing ….to be willing…. To just accept that this reaaaallly sucks!!!
Even though, it is no wonder that I am feeling overwhelmed…with all that has Changed…. and the feelings of safety that I have Lost. My little EGO voice has been badgering me… day and night… reminding me… as if I could forget…. That it looks and feels so hopeless. I would like to try… to focus on the tasks at hand…. And then perhaps…. Taking one step at a time…. I will see that the only power I have to Change anything… is in this moment ….I can change my mind. I can stop those little EGO voice rants… because I do believe that….rehearsing the problem… never solves the problem!!!
Take a deep breath… and then tap these (or similar phrases) until you’re emotions begin to mellow.
You see, if there is anything I know about the little EGO voice it is that it’s like a 2-year old having a tantrum. When we ignore it… it screams louder and gets more persistent. If we hear it out, give it our undivided attention and repeat whatever it has been chanting while tapping… without battle or condemnation… it always… (Okay, in a mentally stable person I have found that it) always… yes I said always… gets bored with ranting after a while. Once it feels that it is “right” and you have heard it, it ….will….get quiet.
So today, whatever is giving you grief… just be with it. Tap and “tell it” sisters (and of course my brothers!) and with no agenda to fix or Change or solve the problem…. Give that part of you, your full attention, just for a short while. See if you don’t discover that it feels better. And you may experience some silence. Ah… silence of mind now THAT is GOLDEN!
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Love and HUGS,
Jan
